With some people, we sometimes have completely random connections literally at first sight, but sometimes, the opposite happens – when a person actually emits some repulsive vibes. If it’s a complete stranger, it’s quite easy to deal with – just walk away and never meet again. But what if such a person is actually your close relative?
Well, the user u/stuntedgoat , the author of our story today, was doubly unlucky – firstly, she has such an unpleasant person in her life, and secondly, and this is actually much sadder, this person is her younger brother. However, let’s just take things in order.
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The author of the post has a 15-year-old brother who is autistic and mostly stays at home watching YouTube and playing Roblox
Young boy likely with autism using a laptop on a couch, highlighting concerns about child safety in family settings.
The woman opens up that she has some animosity towards her brother, not because he’s autistic, but because of his weird behavior
Mom feels unsafe around her autistic brother, family brushes off her fears about her child’s safety and boundaries.
Text excerpt describing a history of aggression and a child with autism spending most awake time watching YouTube or Roblox.
Young boy with glasses using a tablet in dim light, representing concerns around autistic child safety issues.
She once found many strange NSFW search queries of his on the home desktop, and also experienced his odd deeds herself
Text excerpt discussing a mom feeling unsafe around her autistic brother and family dismissing her safety concerns.
Mom feels unsafe around her autistic brother as family dismisses her concerns about child safety and wellbeing.
Text excerpt showing a mother expressing that her concerns about safety were ignored by family members.
Mom expressing concern about safety with her autistic brother, while family dismisses her fears in a home setting.
The woman has a toddler daughter, so she’s concerned about her safety around her uncle
Text excerpt discussing a daughter’s extreme stranger danger and seeking safety near parents around her autistic brother.
Text excerpt about safety concerns, with a mom feeling unsafe around her autistic brother and family dismissing her fears.
Text describing a mom feeling unsafe around her autistic brother while family brushes off her concerns about safety.
Young girl in a denim shirt looking anxiously around a doorframe, reflecting fears about autistic brother’s safety concerns.
Recently, they discussed an upcoming visit from her mom, and the author said point-blank that her brother wasn’t welcome at her house
Text excerpt about a mom feeling unsafe around her autistic brother while family dismisses her child safety concerns.
Text on screen expressing a mom’s anxiety and feeling unsafe around her autistic brother, concerns being brushed off.
Text on a plain white background saying thanks to anyone who reads, hoping not to come off as an AH.
The lady was livid and said she wouldn’t ever set foot in her house again, so the author decided to seek support online
So, the Original Poster (OP) says that she has a 15-year-old brother, towards whom she experiences strong animosity. Both the author and her brother are autistic , but this feeling, according to her own words, has nothing to do with mental health. It’s just that her bro, as the OP says, sits at home all day, watching YouTube and playing Roblox – and recently she and her mom found something very strange.
While searching through their home PC, which is most often used by the brother, they somehow found a lot of NSFW search queries, in which, in particular, animals appeared. The author was shocked, but her mother tried to ignore this, as if nothing strange had actually happened. But since then, the author has decided to distance herself from him as much as possible.
Earlier, she had noticed a certain physiological reaction in him more than once when she came to visit them with her baby and breastfed her, and now the OP sees that her brother often looks at her daughter in a strange way when she is around. By the way, the girl also shares her mom’s dislike for her uncle. Perhaps this is just unreasonable anxiety , but our heroine simply doesn’t want to risk anything.
She recently even had a fight with her mother about this, when she simply texted her about her concerns and asked her to come over without her brother. The mom, however, stood up for him, saying that she wasn’t going to be in a house where her son was not welcome. It all ended in a serious spat, and our heroine simply decided to seek support online, wondering whether she was overreacting here.
Text message conversation about concerns and feeling unsafe around autistic sibling, family dismisses child safety fears.
Text message conversation discussing safety concerns and boundaries involving an autistic family member and feelings of disrespect.
In fact, paraphilias are very often associated with various childhood traumas, and given that the OP herself says that the reason for her and her mother to search through the home desktop was actually to trace their father’s recent adultery , then the atmosphere in the family, apparently, has been far from healthy. In other words, the author most likely has some reasons for concern, and they aren’t unfounded.
“Psychodynamic theories say that unresolved conflicts in early development can shape sexual preferences later in life. Some people with paraphilias may struggle to form healthy reciprocal relationships , so they seek sexual gratification through other means,” this dedicated article on Mental Health claims. At the very least, it would probably make sense to consult an expert on this matter.
Reddit user discussing concerns about safety and lack of support for autistic brother with family dismissing fears.
Comment expressing concern about safety issues related to an autistic family member and the mother’s enabling behavior.
Text post discussing fears about safety around an autistic brother and family dismissing concerns about child safety.
Text post discussing a mom feeling unsafe around her autistic brother and family ignoring her safety concerns.
Text post discussing a mom feeling unsafe around her autistic brother and family dismissing her child safety fears.
Mom feels unsafe around autistic brother as family dismisses her concerns about child safety at home.
Mom feeling unsafe around autistic brother as family dismisses concerns about child safety and boundaries at home
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