For some people, age is truly just a number, and they don’t see an issue with dating someone who’s much younger than them. The problem is that, over time, this difference in ages might become more apparent and end up causing friction in their relationship.
This is what a middle-aged woman faced after dating a man who was twelve years her junior, only to get broken up with when he found out she was going to become a grandma. She couldn’t believe it would make such a difference to him, and ended up devastated.
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The poster shared that she had met her current boyfriend when he was a caterer at her son’s wedding, and that even though they had a 12-year age gap, it didn’t bother them
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Over time, the poster fell in love with her boyfriend and felt that they connected on a special level, which is why they began speaking about living together and getting married
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Unfortunately, when the poster’s son told her she was going to be a grandma, her 32-year-old boyfriend got spooked and decided to break up with her
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The woman couldn’t believe that her two-year relationship was over, and she found herself constantly in tears over it
Obviously, the OP had never planned to end up with a younger man, but she fell for him almost immediately when he approached her at her son’s wedding . Even though he was twelve years younger than her, she almost felt like it was a rom-com moment between them and decided to start a relationship with him.
According to psychologists , it’s rarer for younger men to date or get married to older women. Research shows that around 75% of males are married to younger females, whereas only 10% of men are one or more years younger than their wives. This goes to show that there might still be some stigma around this particular kind of age-gap relationship.
Luckily for the poster, she seemed to match quite well with her new boyfriend, and they loved going to the gym or eating the same kind of cuisine together. They also agreed that they didn’t want any children in the future, and due to all these similarities, their relationship seemed to be quite healthy and blissful.
Although things seemed to be going smoothly for the poster and her partner so far, research has found that usually age-gap relationships tend to struggle as time progresses. This is usually because they have to grapple with important topics like family planning, aging, and attraction later on, and that can be quite difficult to deal with.
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Things began to change almost immediately after the woman found out that she was going to be a grandmother . She felt overjoyed about her son’s news, but her boyfriend started panicking because he couldn’t see himself becoming a grandfather as he wasn’t even thirty-five years old yet.
The OP felt shocked about her partner’s worries and tried to convince him that he wouldn’t even need to be called grandpa and that they could treat him like an uncle instead. Unfortunately, this was not enough for the man, and he decided to end things with his older girlfriend instead of taking the discussion further.
According to experts , when couples in age-gap relationships start facing trouble, it’s important for them to figure out whether they can work things out or if they just want different things from life. Since they might be at completely different stages, it just might be that they’re not compatible enough to carry things forward.
Obviously, the OP didn’t want to accept her younger boyfriend’s decision to break up, and she truly felt that they’d be able to work things out. That’s why she was left heartbroken and felt at a loss about what she could do to make herself feel better.
What are your thoughts on the woman’s predicament, and do you have any advice for her? We’d love to hear your opinions on this story.
People sympathized with the woman but felt that the man wasn’t wrong for making a choice that felt right to him
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