Woman Gets Message From Boss After Posting Beach Pics: “i Don’t Like This”

A work-life balance is more than just not being harassed by emails late at night, it can be as simple as having a private life that your employer has no say over. But some bosses only see their employees as, well, just that, employees, and think they have a right to dictate things well beyond working hours.

A woman asked the internet if she was overreacting when she got an Instagram message from her boss, complaining that she had posted bikini pictures. We reached out to the woman who posted the pictures via private message and will update the article when she gets back to us.

It shouldn’t matter to your job what you post on your personal Instagram account

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But one woman got angry DMs from her boss after she posted a bikini picture

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As it turns out, in many workplaces, managers can’t just make demands like this

When your boss informs you about what you cannot post on your own personal social networking platforms, it can be invasive and autocratic, but you must understand your rights, your employer’s perspective, and how to address the issue calmly and lawfully.

Your social media rights while employed in the United States depend on a blend of federal, state, and sometimes company regulations. Federal law, such as the National Labor Relations Act ( NLRA ), protects workers’ rights to discuss conditions of work, wages, or unionizing, yes, including on social media. That is, if you’re discussing your working conditions or wages, especially with coworkers or the public, your employer usually can’t discipline you for that. But it doesn’t cover everything. If you post private company information, make harassing or discriminatory statements, or purposefully damage the company’s reputation, your employer might have grounds to discipline or terminate you.

So, if your boss comes along and says something like, “You can’t put that up,” don’t become angry. Instead, get them to clarify. A good place to start is: “Can you tell me what specifically about the post is the problem? ” Try to be inquisitive rather than confrontational. The company may have a social media policy that dictates what is and isn’t acceptable. If they do, ask to see it. A well-crafted policy should establish boundaries and enforce them consistently throughout the workplace.

It’s important to know one’s rights

If you are being told not to disclose something personal, like politics, lifestyle, or going to a legal protest, you can be given greater protection, especially by way of state laws. To take an example, some states (like California, New York, and Colorado) pass laws that prevent employers from taking action against an employee for lawful off-work activity, like social media posting. Those protections do normally establish limits, however, where posts themselves amount to harm to the employer’s legitimate business interests.

Readers were surprised and offered some advice

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