Do you have a dream? Well, what am I asking? We all have dreams. Some dream of a cozy house with a small garden, others of a bustling and close-knit family, some desperately want to get rich, and for others, a dream is, for example, traveling. The only problem is that the path to realizing our dreams is often hampered by many obstacles.
Today, we invite you to read a story from the user u/thr0w4w4ylife , whose cherished dream of owning her own home finally came true. But she had absolutely no idea what she would have to go through to achieve this goal. Okay, let’s take it one step at a time!
More info: Reddit
Sometimes you have to choose between having the home of your dreams or having it together with your significant other—and the answer isn’t actually that simple
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The author of the post and her boyfriend of five years were getting ready to put down a payment for a true dream house when unpleasant news arose
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It turned out that the man had a poor credit rating, so the bank couldn’t give him a loan at all
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The guy explained this by the financial fraud of one of his relatives, who got access to his account somehow
Update note thanking readers for advice on original post with constructive strategies and words of advice shared.
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However, when the author urged him to report identity theft and charge this relative for fraud, the man refused flatly
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This looked so unreasonable that the woman started reconsidering their whole relationship, being worried about more possible lies from the man
So, this story happened several years ago, when the original poster (OP) and her boyfriend of five years were about to make a down payment on their dream home, which they had recently been eyeing. The author’s boyfriend was planning to take out a loan, and one day the bank upset the couple by announcing that the man’s credit history was, in fact, nearly ruined.
After a detailed investigation, the boyfriend told our heroine that a close relative had recently gained access to his credit card and had repeatedly run up the balance to the point of default. As a result, he now owed the bank about $5K, and it would take several years for his credit rating to be restored to the proper level.
And then our heroine had a spat with him. She wanted him to charge the relative over this incident, proving to the bank that he wasn’t the one making the transactions. This way, the bank could restore the credit rating, and the couple wouldn’t have to spend another few years living in rented apartments. The author considered this perfectly reasonable — except the guy thought otherwise!
The boyfriend declared that he didn’t want to quarrel with his family and would definitely pay off the entire debt himself within a couple of years. Moreover, he believed it was best not to let this relative even know about getting exposed in this fraud. This also meant that their dream of owning a house was being delayed. This not only upset the OP, but also made her reconsider everything…
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Actually, the OP had every reason to be upset. The fact is that restoring one’s credit rating in cases of proven credit card fraud is a fairly common practice. The official Consumer Financial Protection Bureau website explicitly recommends reporting identity theft in such cases without delay. This prevents any possible recurrence and will also help restore one’s credit rating, eliminating the need to pay off someone else’s debts.
Yes, it will take time and financial resources to restore one’s good name — but that’s certainly less than three years, right? “Since the formal dispute process to correct inaccuracies with the credit bureaus can take several weeks, it’s best to get started ASAP,” this dedicated article at the Library of Congress Federal Credit Union blog says.
In an update to the post, the author admitted that this was indeed the case. She undertook a thorough investigation and uncovered numerous instances of his lies towards her. The couple broke up, so the guy packed up his belongings and left without a word. She never saw him again. But then the author did buy a beautiful house on her own! Sometimes you have to achieve your dreams through losses — don’t you think so?
So it actually happened—the author exposed her boyfriend’s numerous lies, and they broke up soon after, so the woman bought her dream house alone
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